my book recommendations

relationships

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-Monogamy
Jessica Fern

Mating in Captivity
Esther Perel

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Sue Johnson

Nonviolent Communication
Marshall B. Rosenberg

sex and sexuality

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
Emily Nagoski 

Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections
Emily Nagoski 

Greedy: Notes from a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much
Jen Winston

The New Bottoming Book
Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

The New Topping Book
Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

The Ethical Slut
Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life
Vanessa Marin & Xander Marin

So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives
Ian Kerner

healing trauma & connection to self

No Bad Parts
Richard Schwartz

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself
Kristen Neff